Fogiveness and Love

Why is it so difficult for us to forgive one another? This is one of our major challenges. People talk about being Christians and being more Godly yet we hold grudges but state we are loving. We cannot be loving and hateful at the same time. No matter what people say or do to us, this is our opportunity to love them and forgive them. This is what it means to be Gods child. This is how we heal our hearts and minds and this is how we break these cycles of negativity. There is no one to blame, just make an effort to be more loving and less judgmental. You are love, everything else is an illusion.